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Every game has rules, and this one is no different.  Luckily, my rules mostly boil down to “Don't be an asshole" which is pretty simple as long as you aren't an asshole.I genuinely believe in the adage 'treat others as you wish to be treated'.  You are not a predator, nor do I wish to treat you like one. But right now, you are a stranger.  And much like you did your homework on me (via reading my various websites, ads, social media pages, livestreams, interviews, and writings) I would like to do mine on you.  I think that's pretty fair, don't you?I don't want a photo of your ID, I don't need to talk to other people you've been with, and there's no form to submit. As the name of the game is discretion, I try to avoid things I find indiscreet while keeping it simple and painless for both of us. I want as little of your data in my posession as possible. I commuicate only via encrypted email and do not keep anything 'on file' after we meet. I will not contact you outside of the bounds of our interaction, unless explicitly opted into. Your privacy is paramount.

Screening Requirements

  • First and Last Name*
  • Birthdate
  • City
  • Phone Number
  • Occupation
  • Date & City for our visit
  • 2-3 Alternative Dates
    • If your name is very common, I may follow up for a middle initial.

Please email me the above information plus a brief personal introduction to - please make the subject line something relevant like the city you want to visit in or the date you are looking to meet. If there is pertinent information you feel I need to know, please feel free to share that in your introduction as well. I look forward to hearing from you and can't wait to build our connection.

Recommended Private Email Clients: ProtonMail, Tutanota
Recommended VPNs: ProtonVPN, PIA, Njala

Check out my article on OPSEC if you need more information on this topic.

Please note: By emailing me, you acknowledge you are fully aware of and agreeing to the policies laid out on the Decorum page regarding Deposits and Cancellation fees. If you do not agree to these terms, do not contact me. Contacting me in regards to this website will be considered an acknowledgement of and agreement to the Deposit and Cancellation policies.

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